10 Expressions You Should Never Use

In December 1999 I discovered this document.  I’m not sure of the origin but I kept it because I thought it embodied so much of the work ethic issues I observed in many people.  Almost 20 years later, I still read it several times a year.

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What does it take to get ahead in business? Knowing what not to say is a starter. Eliminate all negative phrases.

NEVER SAY…

Expression:  “They didn’t get back to me.” Or “They are getting back to me.”

Reason:  Expecting someone to get back to you stops the action. Take the initiative. Never wait for anyone to return your telephone call.

 

Expression:  “I thought someone else was taking care of that.”

Reason:  Excuses indicate a roadblock to action. You do what you’re told, but don’t think about what should be happening. Always ask questions to keep things moving.

 

Expression:  “No one ever told me.”

Reason:  If a supervisor hears you express yourself this way too often, it will only make a clear statement about the way you work–that you operate in a tunnel, oblivious to everything that is going on around you.

 

Expression:  “I didn’t know you wanted me to do that.”

Reason:  This expression indicates that you are only capable of doing what you are told and nothing else.

 

Expression:  “I didn’t think about that.”

Reason:  An inability to see down the road may indicate that you lack the ability to understand and grasp relations.

 

Expression:  “But it isn’t due until…”

Reason:  Last-minute performance is seldom the best you have to give. Managers know that what’s done in haste doesn’t leave time for proper evaluation, revision and refinement.

 

Expression:  “But they said it would be done on time.”

Reason:  There’s only one problem–it wasn’t.  Why?  Because you failed to check to determine progress and possible problems.

 

Expression:  “As I understand it…”

Reason:  Using words like this indicates that you’re a bystander, not an active participant. Spectators don’t play the game, and they don’t get rewards.

 

Expression:  “It’s scheduled for…”

Reason:  The schedule is only important if completion will be on time. Schedules must be actively verified as many times as necessary.

 

Expression:  “I’ve been trying to get everyone together, but…”

Reason:  Using these words gives the appearance that you can’t handle responsibility or that your associates and co-workers don’t respond to you.